I
        
        
          n a perfect world, sex would be
        
        
          100
        
        
          percent safe. But that’s not
        
        
          the reality.
        
        
          Millions of people each year get
        
        
          a sexually transmitted infection,
        
        
          or STI. Sometimes they have sores
        
        
          or other symptoms. But many
        
        
          show no signs that they have an
        
        
          infection.
        
        
          STIs can be passed when skin
        
        
          touches skin or when body  uids
        
        
          are shared.
        
        
          You can get an STI from any kind
        
        
          of sex.  at includes oral, vaginal
        
        
          and anal sex.
        
        
          
            Sex and your health:
          
        
        
          
            Protect yourself from STIs
          
        
        
          e only sure way to avoid an
        
        
          STI is to not have any kind of sex.
        
        
          But if you choose to have sex,
        
        
          these steps can help lower risks for
        
        
          both you and your partner:
        
        
          
            1.
          
        
        
          
            Get tested.
          
        
        
          is is the only way
        
        
          to know for sure if you or your
        
        
          partner has an STI. Anyone who
        
        
          has ever had sex should be tested.
        
        
          Be honest and direct with your
        
        
          partner. You can say, “I’d like to talk
        
        
          about sex and STIs. What do we
        
        
          both need to know?”
        
        
          Share your own story. Have you
        
        
          been tested? When? If you have an
        
        
          infection, are you being treated for
        
        
          it?
        
        
          Some STIs can be cured. Others
        
        
          can be controlled with medicine
        
        
          but not cured.
        
        
          
            2.
          
        
        
          
            Be faithful.
          
        
        
          is means that
        
        
          you and your partner only have
        
        
          sex with each other. Remember:
        
        
          Be tested and, if needed, treated
        
        
          before you begin a sexual
        
        
          relationship.
        
        
          
            3.
          
        
        
          
            Use latex condoms.
          
        
        
          Use them
        
        
          during any sexual activity—every
        
        
          time. If you have latex allergies,
        
        
          you can use polyurethane or plastic
        
        
          condoms.
        
        
          Keep in mind that pills and
        
        
          other types of birth control do not
        
        
          prevent STIs.
        
        
          
            4.
          
        
        
          
            Don’t use drugs or alcohol.
          
        
        
          ese can lead to risky decisions,
        
        
          such as not using a condom.
        
        
          
            Focus on health
          
        
        
          Be honest with your provider
        
        
          about your sex life. He or she may
        
        
          suggest shots to help protect you
        
        
          from STIs. One shot can prevent
        
        
          hepatitis B. Another prevents some
        
        
          types of HPV.
        
        
          HPV is a group of viruses. Some
        
        
          HPVs can lead to cancer of the
        
        
          cervix.  e shot protects against
        
        
          most HPVs that can lead to this
        
        
          cancer, but not all.
        
        
          STIs are serious.  ey can cause
        
        
          painful symptoms. Some can make
        
        
          it hard to have children in the
        
        
          future.
        
        
          So be tested, and play it safe.
        
        
          Sources: American Social Health Association; Office on Women’s Health
        
        
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          family
        
        
          health
        
        
          
            Be tested,
          
        
        
          
            and play it safe.
          
        
        
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